Young guys dating older guys
Wearing different clothes or taking her to places you don’t like (because that’s where “people her age go”) just puts you in a position where you’ll look and feel both uncomfortable and out-of-place.
Instead of trying to meet her at her level, bring her up to your level.
While younger guys are still figuring their shit out hoping to “make it”, older men have passed that phase.
As a result they offer more stability and reliability – traits that have been programmed through evolution to elicit attraction in women.
This emotional maturity is huge in attracting women (particularly for women looking for long-term relationships.) If you’re interested, in dating younger women, remember these points (and remember that no matter how old you are, you’re probably farther along in all these areas than the guys her age).
They’re more established in terms of their career, finances, etc.Give her a taste of that more mature, grown-up life that she doesn’t experience when she’s with her friends.Wear the same sport coat/blazer you’d wear if you were taking a woman your age out on a date.Finally, older men tend to be more emotionally stable as well.They’re less likely to be swept up in drama as they’ve “been through it all” in their relationships with women.Why women date older men At every age women tend to be attracted to older men. One reason is that older men have more life experience.With that experience come wisdom and a deeper understanding of what the man wants. It’s important to have a partner who can offer something you don’t already have in your life. While saying ALL older men are killer in the sack is a sweeping generalization that shouldn’t be made, most of them are. Not that you need a man with money, but it’s nice knowing that you’re dating someone who won’t have to borrow from you to pay his electricity bill at the end of the month. All those years attribute to a worldly human being who can spice up your life with both stories and advice.Other bylines include: Harper's Bazaar, Your Tango, The Atlantic, Forbes, You Beauty, Huffington Post, The Frisky, and Black Book. Well good news: they are interested in dating you, too.